Things you don't mind to lose but still regret

I have to admit, my smalltalk skills were never perfect. Though, there was this time I could talk about all the small, unimportant and pretty much less interesting things than my parents sex life.
It seems that I've lost it all. Don't get me wrong, but what question is more useless than the one where you ask a girl in a club if she really likes to listen to this kind of music? Sometimes, I tend to go with 'Do you want to skip the talking part and switch directly to the fluid-exchange?' like performed in the movie 'In a beautiful mind'. But really, the woman of today would not flush and run away anymore, but more fatal, kick you in your basement.
What's wrong with today's conversations? Everybody wants sophistication but nobody wants to think or do anything for it.

The whole conversation-going-down-the-drain maybe sticks out most in nowadays chat rooms. Ever talked to a 14-year-old who's ability is to ask 10 questions within 10 seconds and then awaits to answer questions with yes and no? I mean, if the first 10 questions would even be interesting, you could maybe have at least two minutes of fun. On the bright side, its pretty easy to find out if someone is below the legal intercourse age. But never mind, in fact with most people you wouldn't even want to talk in real life anyways. Not to speak of the more fleshy things.

Let's be honest, everybody is against stereotypy if it's about racism, but when it comes to the decision of things, most people go with the masses.
It's hard to be special if you want to be ordinary!